This week, I stumbled upon a thread from a couple who decided to go with a dildo instead of a penis (BBC). They mentioned struggling to find the right fit and dealing with fake profiles. That got me thinking: When it comes to pleasure, which one truly satisfies her? Would you choose a sex toy (dildo, vibrator, ...) over a penis (BBC)?
A little history to set the mood: Archeologists discovered the oldest known dildo in the Hohle Fels cave in Germany in 2005, dating back over 28,000 years. Dildos have been used for millennia — from ancient Greece, where men gifted leather-stuffed dildos to their wives before heading off to war, to the 1960s sexual revolution when they were reclaimed as symbols of sexual freedom and pleasure.
Now, let’s get to the good stuff. Dildos and vibrators offer a range of sensations, lasting longer than a man’s penis, and they’re always ready to go, with no worries about fatigue or performance. But here’s the catch — a sex toy can never give you the warmth, the deep emotional connection, or the raw intimacy of a man. A dildo can’t talk dirty to you, or spank you, or make you feel desired in the way a man’s touch can. And let’s not forget, a sex toy can never ejaculate inside you, creating that feeling of fullness, that release, that only a real penis can provide.
For you and your wife, which brings the most pleasure? Does a dildo or vibrator win the battle, or does a penis (BBC) always take the prize?
Ultimately, it’s about what works best for you. Pleasure is personal, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Let’s chat!
A little history to set the mood: Archeologists discovered the oldest known dildo in the Hohle Fels cave in Germany in 2005, dating back over 28,000 years. Dildos have been used for millennia — from ancient Greece, where men gifted leather-stuffed dildos to their wives before heading off to war, to the 1960s sexual revolution when they were reclaimed as symbols of sexual freedom and pleasure.
Now, let’s get to the good stuff. Dildos and vibrators offer a range of sensations, lasting longer than a man’s penis, and they’re always ready to go, with no worries about fatigue or performance. But here’s the catch — a sex toy can never give you the warmth, the deep emotional connection, or the raw intimacy of a man. A dildo can’t talk dirty to you, or spank you, or make you feel desired in the way a man’s touch can. And let’s not forget, a sex toy can never ejaculate inside you, creating that feeling of fullness, that release, that only a real penis can provide.
For you and your wife, which brings the most pleasure? Does a dildo or vibrator win the battle, or does a penis (BBC) always take the prize?
Ultimately, it’s about what works best for you. Pleasure is personal, and there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Let’s chat!
